I have felt guilt about my part in our crisis and I know I was not perfect
What you have to comprehend is that the above is properly the cause of OM – thats why he came along! I have never heard or read about OM/OW in a happy marriage.
This is properly also the “excuse” your W uses in front of herself and God! I had to do this – we will all be better off so it is the right thing to do!
Originally Posted By: BKS
I, like a lot of LBS's, have been trying to figure out why a S would do this to their family.
I am not a VET but as I see the WAS now, she is (in her head) not doing it TO the family – she is doing it FOR the family! She is doing it to save herself and her children and she properly counts you in as well: You will be much better without me or other script.
Originally Posted By: BKS
The fact that OM is now confirmed, somehow gives me some peace of mind though.
Removed doubts, even if discovery is unpleasant, often gives this feeling so I understand why!
BKS, I totally understand if you are hurting and feeling anger, but it will get you nowhere right now – if ever! Stick to the high road and keep being the best man and farther you can.
All the best
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
