To answer your other questions Sandi - the trip was originally planned to be a 4-day trip to a destination 5-6 hours away. It was planned when I knew we were having problems but was not aware of the affair. A week or so ago, I asked her if she still wanted to go and she said that she didn't have enough vacation and didn't want to spend ~$2k on a long weekend but that she did still want to go away. We ended up going to a place ~2 hours away for just a normal weekend. The original idea was mine but she had the option to cancel altogether and opted for a shorter trip.
We do have an appointment with the MC on Wednesday. We have been cancelling our weekly appointments for the last 2-3 weeks as she/we felt like the sessions put too much pressure on her. We have been getting along a lot better since we stopped going but she has also reverted to the affair during that time. I am not sure what to do with this session. Maybe one of us should go alone? Maybe her?
Me:38 W:39 No Children BD: 5/13 EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13 W Moved out 12/13
