Following on what jp said, is your H like that with everyone or is it just you? It seems, from what you describe, that he might be that way all the time. Imagine being in his head where everyone is doing things that are disturbing, all the time. Not a good place to be.

What were you thinking when he first texted about the money?

Sounds like a crazy kind of meeting. You must be exhausted.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss