As of late, very few interactions with W. I've been trying to get my finances in order - found a really cool app! I've been doing a bit of volunteer work. I went to church. Trying to keep up with friends about life outside of this.
Latest Q.. In my recent interactions with W, shes' very defensive. I sense she's starting to have trust issues with me b/c of the things our kids have said to her. She thinks I think she's a bad mom. One of my kids explained to me that W thinks I have all kinds of mental issues. What can I do to put her at ease that I'm not "out to get her"? I'm working with IC on my issues and signed up the fam for a group therapy. What else can I do? I haven't even spoke with a L since this whole thing began. It's like W is paranoid I'm going to destroy her which is so far from the truth. If anything, I'm focused on how to show her love even through the D process.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
