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Originally Posted By: chasingpavements
My daughter just brought home a case of chocolate mint Girl Guide cookies to sell. Bad news for me! They are SOO good!

Our neighbour’s daughter is in Guides. If it’s the mint cookies this year, I’d better send her dad a message soon telling him I’ll take a box or two. They are yummy.

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Glad to hear things are going well with you NQ and you sound happy. It's great that you and your son are going to do the fitness training together.. so good for both of you! smile

Just need the motivation to actually get a training program started….

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Take care and have a great weekend, are you getting this crazy warm October weather? Feels like 86 degrees today?! I was joking with my neighbour that lately we get all 4 seasons every week here.

No kidding – warm one day, freezing the next. My sister lives just over an hour west and slightly north of me, and while driving to her place on Friday night the fog was getting thicker the further west I went. At least the rain held off long enough for us to spend some time around the bonfire, and get a few marshmallows toasted. It was the first time S13 had toasted marshmallows. He liked the marshmallows but not having to sit so close to the fire to toast them - the smoke seemed to be attracted to him. Awesome thunderstorm overnight, but nice weather most of the day, then rain again Saturday evening just after we got in.

Had a fantastic weekend visiting my sis. I’d forgotten how much hard work her son is with his learning disability, especially as he thinks he knows everything and doesn’t take finding out he’s wrong very well. His biggest problem is that he takes advantage of the disability benefits and won’t even bother trying to find any sort of a job despite the fact that he is capable of doing some things. The highlight of the weekend was watching our provincial police precision motorcycle display team. What a combination – Harleys and men in uniform wink . Oh, and just for MH smirk , there were a few women in uniform, including the one that is the ride master of the display team.

H turned up as promised this morning for his weekly visit. Surprise, surprise (not) only two small items were taken with him when he left. I'm really going to have to set a time limit for him to get his stuff packed and moved out.


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Don't you just love it when the holes appear in their stories crazy . Quick refresher - H on Wednesday says he didn't see a future with OW, just half hour after admits that he would be working at her place on the weekend.

Yesterday during his visit he was talking about having installed a punch bag in a basement so he can step up his training with kick boxing or sparring. There's that hole in his story - why install fitness equipment at her place if there isn't a future with her crazy .

All I can say is glad I didn't believe a word he said on Wednesday smile. Of course, he's probably forgotten his entire conversation from Wednesday night as when I mentioned that he had said he would pack up the rest of his stuff during his weekly visit, he looked at me blankly and said "did I? Oh well, it'll have to be another time now".


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It's just like a drug, isn't it? frown


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A drug addiction, I mean. Trying to type with a needy cat attached to me and oozing onto my keyboard.


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I know what you mean. And just like a drug addiction, there's nothing anyone can do until the addict decides that he (or she) needs help.


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I agree smile H always puts massive holes in his stories smile If I did confront him about OW or his car tyres, I wonder how he's wriggle out of that one! hehe smile


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anyway NQ, I should say sorry that holes have appeared in his story already frown Good job you weren't 100% convinced! I forgot about H taking the tent, camping chair and sleeping bag. That had a huuuuuge hole in his story! Well if you can call it a story, he was as transparent as a window, lol.


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Seriously girls! I can't tell you how many convos I've had to repeat to H or he tells me the same thing he told me a few hours/days ago. He can't keep all his stories straight and who he tells what!

It is a drug addiction, temporary high, thinking it makes them feel better, but it is not permanent.

In the early days of BD I would tell him "you can't understand right now you are on a drug". I don't do that anymore of course, but he would be like "what? I'm not on a drug". I would hold his chin and look into his eyes deeply and just look. You can tell by the eyes.


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Originally Posted By: Not Quitting
Oh, and just for MH smirk , there were a few women in uniform, including the one that is the ride master of the display team.


I'd be afraid of getting out of line and being corrected with a riding crop! blush


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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
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Oh, and just for MH smirk , there were a few women in uniform, including the one that is the ride master of the display team.


I'd be afraid of getting out of line and being corrected with a riding crop! blush

More like a Glock 7 or 36 police special LOL - we are talking motorcycle cops.

Some of us actually look good (or that should be looked as I was 16 years younger) in uniform LOL wink - but from what BIL said not the women that were there Saturday smile


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