Being with my wife for 18 years has drained ANY "game" I MIGHT have
had smile

So I texted (24YO)her on Sat afternoon
"I had a great time last night...Looking forward to the next time. PS"

She DID respond 20 mins later.....
"Yeah, it was good meeting you guys"

Now I know nothing about dating and texting these days.....I just stepped out of my delorean and its flippin 2013- NOT 1996 anymore.

So, Im told no text response is a blow off. A generic response like that? No clue.

So I didnt text back because I got no game and Im not going to be the creepy old guy(never mind creepy old seperated guy with a beautiful D3.5) Maybe someday ill get a text- most likely no.

So DB'ers why did I do this? "This doesnt sound too DB". This was not planned. It happened....Therefore, I acted "as if". "As if" my wife wasnt coming back because when your still screwing 2 men and spend 10 days away on vaca with one- its a HUGE mountain to demo. Furthermore, Honesty needs to be very important on this site. I posted at 2am Friday night because I wanted to capture the honest emotion I feltat the time-adrenaline. I posted the text response I got here because there is so much new world that I need to learn. I want this to be an honest timeline of evolution/growth.

Today is my 10 mth bomb drop anniv. I need to keep evolving into the best person I can be. Only then will I be the man that "only a fool would Divorce".


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13