EMAIL FROM HUSBAND: You can't imagine how disappointed I am in you for simply breaking off communication with me. It's not clear to me what you're trying to accomplish. Regardless, time marches forward.
I plan to cancel all the utilities at the house next weekend. I will let each company know that you intend to continue service in your name. I will contact: Lawn Service, Verizon, Gas, Power, Water, and auto insurance. I was honestly hoping to do this collaboratively, to avoid a break in service for you, but it doesn't seem that you're willing to work with me. The home insurance will remain in my name because the mortgage is in my name for now.
I also wanted to talk to you about you picking-up or cost-sharing the mortgage on the house, until you refinance or we sell it.
I plan to come by the house to pick up more belongings, bills, and some furniture for the apartment. Since you won't engage with me on how we will divide the assets, I'll simply take what I need/want and we'll have to deal with it later. I'll be bringing (best friend) with me when I come by.
I'm still willing to be your friend through this, to be helpful and supportive. I want to be able to answer your questions and help you make decisions that are in your best interest. But we have to be able to communicate for that to happen. You have to communicate for that to happen. You don't have to prove to me how difficult we could make this if we wanted to, I know that all too well, and I'm sure that through this process we could both be very hurtful to each other if we wanted to be...but to what end? What does that buy either of us in the end?
