Do nothing GTO, just be still and catch your breath. I KNOW that's so easy to say yet harder to. Give it to GOD and take your hands off. I know you wanna "fix" what you did because you feel like it leave a negative impact in his mind plus you gave back power and control that you've worked so hard to establish. It's ok it happens, refocus on yourself and your children. It's never too late, even if you all D there is nothing that says you all can't get back together. God knows your heart, trust HIM with it no matter what. Keep your focus in the right places because every place of comfort isn't a place of comfort...