You know what, Rosa? You are so beautiful to me, too!
You continue to have a great attitude even when things are dark for you. You've been a true inspiration to me.
I'm so sorry about your eyesight. You have a clear mind even if your eyes are blurry. It's probably little consolation since we depend on our eyes so much.
The co-workers are probably just tired of seeing you sad over H and they are probably frustrated at him also! I'm sure they mean well. I know it's hard to go on with your DB plan in the face of well-meaning colleagues, but nevertheless, you still are.
Just b/c H is having a crisis, doesn't take away from the loveliness that you are. Actually, it is bringing out your deeper virtues of strength and love -- these are priceless gifts that money can't buy.
Hang in there!
Thinking of you today, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway