Kml - he is not a serial cheater. His ex wife was actually shocked by this news. He is, however, a serial saboteur. When relationships get real, he bails or makes things very difficult. This is his third marriage. He finally admitted that he has some serious issues. If you read my stitch, when I gave him the ultimatum, he pleaded to go back to counseling and confessed that there's something wrong with him. He cried a lot and I felt sorry for him. I had never seen him cry like this. He is definitely going through something, which it isn't to say I don't have to work on myself, which I do.
And yes, my hormones are out of whack. They may get even more out of whack once the baby is here because I did have postpartum depression with our first. It's like this whole mess, as bad is it looks, is actually the calm before the storm. Oy!