Hi Luke... I am starting off on assertiveness training too. My IC suggests to box it *PNP* (positive, negative, positive)... maybe like this:

D15, I love you, I will not tollerate disrespect, I can't wait to see you.

As Bond suggests, use her as your starting point on how to demand respect from your wife. Do not allow this behaviour, it breeds further disrespect. Lets start standing up here!!

You and me... U in?

Magic

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)