Been reading "His needs, her needs" and have figured out that I haven't been the most pleasant person to be around in the past year or so. I complained a lot about my end of things and can see how that turned him off and made him feel powerless to make me happy. I'm not saying that he is perfect, but I can see how I could have contributed for him to go look for a more pleasant interaction (friendship) outside our marriage.
New goal: stop complaining
Never were more truer words spoken Preggo. These apply to my situation as well. My H felt helpless to help me through my depressive state and I was not pleasant at all. Even when I'm dead tired and feeling really down, I do not let on that I am feeling unpleasant.
You are a wise woman Preggo, you learn quick. You will make it through this.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
