Fly, sorry to hear the news about your W. Have you talked to her about anything yet? How is she doing? I agree with the others to send a card or something like that. Hope you are doing well, -cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.