Glad to hear you are having a better day. Sounds like you are on the right track here, by giving him some space and backing off on asking about his whereabouts. You are also doing good by not getting drawn into fights with him. Keep it up! The more DB'ing you do, the better you will feel. It gets easier with time, just keep at it! Sounds like you are doing good with everything and getting the hang of it. You are lucky that your H is at home, you have the "gift of time" as they call it on here.. take advantage and DB it up
cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.