Good for you for refusing to talk about it in front of the children. Your W is wrong for talking about it in front of them and one of you needs some common sense. Also, nice job keeping your cool.

I have to defer to the vets on the advice you are seeking but I wanted you to know someone was here.

M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13