Jerseybeachmama - I think having little ones puts an extra strain in the marriage. Some couples just can't cope very well with the stress. H doesn't cope well with any stress, for that matter, and I pretty much fell apart in the first year of S1's life.

Sometimes I wonder if one of the reasons H detached is because of this pregnancy, since he knows when a newborn is here, we could start that stressful interaction all over again.


M: 34 H:41
M: 3 T:5
S1 and S0
SS11
BD: 8/13
EA: 8/13