Uneventful day so far. H has been painting and touching up all day. It's 5:30 in the evening and he is still working on it. He gets in a bad mood and cusses a lot.
I usually bug him to abandon house projects and hang out with us. I just took S1 to play by myself. I also made H's favorite meal (his request) and got his favorite ice cream.
Been reading "His needs, her needs" and have figured out that I haven't been the most pleasant person to be around in the past year or so. I complained a lot about my end of things and can see how that turned him off and made him feel powerless to make me happy. I'm not saying that he is perfect, but I can see how I could have contributed for him to go look for a more pleasant interaction (friendship) outside our marriage.
