Struggling!

[Ambivalent]

Okay, you say you have the marriage you want, just not the sex. Have you discussed this with her? What if you fall in love with the other person?

What if she says "no" to an open marriage? I'm not understanding why you're even here. If you don't care about having a sexless marriage, and you believe she and you will stay together, and you just get some outside the marriage, you are here why?

Is it to get validation for what you now want? With std's and aides, is it really worth it?

She knows you have needs and desires, you say she loves you, but she doesn't give or try and work on herself out of love.

It would help if you had your age and her age on her signature. You mentioned she was past menopause, and I thought you guys were younger.

I read many posts, and it is easy to forget...