AS, with regards to the emotion of divorce being reality, I agree and think we all will go through that. Some ways I think we need to have that emotion at those moments, just to show we are still human. When my transfer came in, the emotion hit really hard. Even though I had been thinking about how I will handle it for weeks leading up to it. I expect the same thing will happen with the divorce. I am expecting to just receive papers in the mail after 1 year of separation (5th Dec according to W), it can all be done online in Australia.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.