AS, with regards to the emotion of divorce being reality, I agree and think we all will go through that. Some ways I think we need to have that emotion at those moments, just to show we are still human. When my transfer came in, the emotion hit really hard. Even though I had been thinking about how I will handle it for weeks leading up to it.
I expect the same thing will happen with the divorce. I am expecting to just receive papers in the mail after 1 year of separation (5th Dec according to W), it can all be done online in Australia.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.