Good conversation today. A few weeks ago, I told H that when he calls/picks up the phone, that he is a grouch, and it puts me on my guard. He said, he is always worried that I am going to get angry/upset.
I have maintained my cheery disposition, today he called just to discuss the dog and a couple other functional issues. I told him about my already zany day, laughed and asked about his.
Then I got off the phone.
I think I surprised him.
If there is a chance, I know this is how it's going to happen. If not....then at least I will have the pleasure of confusing him every now and then. I forgot how fun that can be to do...and how much H always enjoyed me surprising him every. Ow and then.