I have the marriage I want, except for the sex. I think friends with benefits and open marriage make a lot of sense in my particular situation. It's not something I would recommend for most people.
I'm not interested in changing property, inheritance, in-laws, step kids, houses, and leaving my current family responsibilities JUST so I can have good sex a few hours a week. That's really silly. And if that person loses her libido, I should switch this all over yet again. That's absurd.
