Ugh so sorry MH! I can see how that would be a bad reminder for you.
So true on the never-ending projects! I think my house will be spotless and very Type A looking while I'm going through this! Since my H was impressed by my closet, it's going to make me a cleaning queen! haha..maybe not.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
Thanks Dragon. It was a very nice day. And my son and I did have a great time together, I think he needed mom time.
It is a grey area and it's funny how even though he is here, there is still major emptiness. I keep finding things that remind me of something funny or fun that we did and I feel like that person is no longer there to share it with.
Oh btw, I am listening to cheesy 80s songs while I am reading. What a great picker-upper!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
Pud if u want him to miss you why are u cooking dinners and watching tv with him? How bout getting dolled up and going out? Smelling good looking good and feeling single? Try it
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Well, there ya go, Pud, it's time for friends! How are you going to make new friends? i know some people are as outgoing as others, but I guarantee there's a hobby or something you enjoy that you can find a group. I have a fantastic friend that I met who I found out brews his own beer, and expressed interest in it one time. Now he and I go out at least once a week, maybe two.
Jon is correct. I have made many friends with my hobby. I have also met many here on the board. I also have a very good friend that I met at a divorce care group. So put yourself out there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Oh btw, I am listening to cheesy 80s songs while I am reading. What a great picker-upper!
My W and I both appreciated those cheesy 80's songs. Funny how they didn't seem cheesy when we were young and the songs were new. Somehow, they still have their appeal. The songs and that time of our life were so much simpler.
Somebody help me here. I feel like my H is pulling away more. I told him I was going to meet a friend for lunch today and then he said he was going to go out later for the football game.
I feel like I need to tell him to man up and quit pretending we are married. But I am not quite sure how to say it and I am not sure I am ready for the possible negative outcome that could occur. I know I need to be ready for that and I don't feel I am. What do I do?
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
I'm working on that!!!
