I think as a 180, you keep the phones together, unless she asks to separate them. Know its shortcoming of yourself, its a free shot at your changes. Make the most of it. STOP doing it. Taking away the temptation takes your chance of a 180 out of your hands. Its for you, not her.
If she asks you to keep recording the shows, and you stop it, then you stop a connection. If YOUR recording the shows to keep the connection, and she's not asking you to, your having expectations.
