Most of them say that they're never coming back and they say it more than once! Read what rH sadd over and over again! My h said the same thing as recently as 2 months ago. When I talked to him yesterday after he and ow had what appears to be another big blowout he mumbled something about selling the house that he purchased 4 months ago and hinted that he could come back to the guest room here. Because he mumbled it I didn't respond. LOL
Anyway, the point is that they say things that they feel in the "right now" and don't always follow through with their declarations.
Angela is right when she says that women can sometimes temporarily lose their passion when there are other things on their mind or if they don't feel the closeness to their partner for whatever reason. It doesn't have to be anything even as traumatic as what your w is experiencing right now and it doesn't have to be that they're angry or upset at their h.
Hang in their and keep reading the threads of those that have reconciled. The mlcer can and many do a 180 but just as it took us awhile to do our 180's it will take them as long if not longer.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
