Hi Angela,
Hope you are feeling better. Just a couple things that I noticed upon reading your last post.

To answer your question about affection and making love, it is okay so long as you feel good about it, if it works for you. So long as you don't have any 'expectations' attached, or expecting that there is an emotional attachment, as there might not be on both sides. If you enjoy it, and it is not giving any false hope then go for it. As far as kisses and hugs go, in my situation I held off on that as I could tell that my H wasn't comfortable with that.

Also, I would definitely hold back on mentioning ANYTHING about MLC to your H. It is clearly upsetting him and causing problems. People in MLC refuse to believe they are in MLC. You may know it, but he doesn't need to hear it. Just do all the research, books, internet, and reading up on the subject you can do, but do NOT mention to him that you are doing so. There are also tonnes of MLC information links on the MLC forum on here, and lots of useful advice in dealing with a MLC'er.

Good luck and keep us posted.
cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.