rH this is so encouraging. Thanks. And we don't have any pets so maybe my H giving our S28 a bearhug while I greedily watched and wanted in on it is a good sign!

Forever, my H decided the exact same thing about me TWICE! He had never loved me, not for one second in the past 38 years. Then he loved me dearly, passionately and romantically. Now he is back to never loving me, and claims that he was just pretending to love me, but is tired of pretending. Give that man an oscar!

FY it is just MLC double talk. You KNOW your W loved you in the past. You know it. You would have noticed if she'd cut you off physically and emotionally for the past 30 years, wouldn't you have?

She loved you then, she loves you the best she can now, she will love you completely again. Yup!

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17