Preggo, despite how stressful that was it actually sounds quite positive.
I think maybe the fact that he has been willing to go to counseling still shows there is something there. And he has heard what you said tonight, because the counselors enforced what you said. It seriously sounds like a turning point. However, if you don't see positives right away don't get touchy again. He may need LOTS of time to sort through his feelings and what he has done. Take it slooooow. If you can
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