Wow! Great stuff today about not being angry at the MLC'er, etc.
etc: I wish I was where you and T2 are mentally, right now! Good stuff!
I do have a question. What if your spouse doesn't think they are in a MLC? My husband just found out this week that I feel like he's in an MLC and he is FURIOUS with me. He thinks I'm trying to make him out to be a "bad" person, etc. which isn't AT ALL the way I feel. He is in complete denial about the MLC. We had a huge fight about it...and I'm just wondering, was there a time when your spouses denied the MLC? Or did they always know that's what they were going through?
