F, just a short note. I think you are still handling all this sitch in the right way and doing it very well. It does seem you W still needs you in her life, she just doesn't know how much and how to go about it.....yet. You are still so lucky to have her around and contacting you. Look at the other end of the spectrum.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.