Hi Preggo, sorry to hear of your latest developments but sometimes you have to do what makes you feel sane. I completely understand it. It may, and that's a questionable may, make him wake up and see what he is losing. I hope that's the case.
Hang tough.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.