I think Bond is right. You are far from "done", that's easy enough to see. You just don't want what's right now. I get that.
Checking to see what he thinks that looks like allows you to figure out if you want to talk or not. If you want to continue or not. I strongly suggest not quitting until that feeling comes and doesn't go away. When it does, you'll know and you won't have to worry about talking to him or not. Until then, keep trying!
From your description, I don't think your H is "done" either. More like he doesn't like the limbo either.
Just my thoughts and what I see in there.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
