I know it seems like I am really controlling, and I guess to some extent I am. I know she is in control of this situation right now. It's only by her grace that she called the lawyer to not have me served in person yet. The goal of this site is to save your marriage though, and that's what I'm trying to do through real change, time and patience. Time is important as a 60 day window from filing to finalization is very quick. That's why I want this precious time before the proceedings start, because while things are amicable now, I dont see how they could be moving forward.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
