Hi everyone, nice to hear from you! NotLikingThis, I agree with all you say -- RT will disappear when she learns there is nothing in the relationship for her. BUT if that has not happened yet, if H was able to keep the "rich American" pretense up in person for 30 days, I despair of her ever learning the truth. In fact, H says that RT has a lot more money than he does and bought a car for about $10,000 in cash. Does that sound like someone who needs to charge her boyfriend $500 to live in her flat with her and boink her for a month? I just don't get it at all. Maybe with MLC, there just isn't anything to get.

Wonka, H did not mention any cockroaches, maybe he just didn't notice them smile , but did say the place was a dump. He is mighty proud of all the repairs he made with slap dash methods and archaic tools.

Nero, yes, RT and her mom were mighty needy. H does not like any show of weakness or neediness in ME, but he enjoyed "saving" those two.

And Cadet smile I'm learning huh?

So H's saga continues. He had to go see the sights of Moscow alone. He was sort of expecting to see the free concerts RT bragged so much about, but she did not "get a chance" to take him to any. I know he was very disappointed that RT presented herself as being his "soul mate" as they love the exact same music, except oops, she did not know any of the songs he tried to share with her. Bright, you would know - are there free concerts in Moscow, or was this another one of RT's lies, like him being able to use their free health service to have his tooth extracted if he just came up with a bottle of vodka to bribe the dentist?

He says he was so disappointed in Red Square and the churches, but got his photo taken in front of them to prove he was there. I was not shown the photos. He said the people in Moscow are rude and rush everywhere, and push past you and yell at you. And it was dirty. He had been telling me what a wonderful modern city it is compared to New York, now he seems to be pretty let down.

Yesterday he was chatty and nice, today he is sullen and cold. I am wondering if RT is starting to push him again. She waited a couple of weeks after their last conjugal visit before she started demanding to know why he hadn't filed for divorce yet. H did not like Moscow much, and I don't think he would like to live there, but neither does RT, her goal is to live right here on Long Island. Preferably in my house smile Ain't happening RT!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17