I started reading your thread. Different sort of situation than mine. Interesting though.
Well, OM is confirmed and there is at the very least EA and I am pretty sure that it is a PA too.
Thankfully, this came as no surprise and, although extremely disappointing, not a surprise in the least. The OM is who I have suspected all along, divorced dad from my sons hockey team last year. I had this very strong GUT feeling about it and now I know that my GUT was right.
Here is my question. Now that I know this is the case and my W is full steam ahead on the D, What do I do now?
How does this affect my D in the NY State divorce court. Morally this is so wrong, I know. Legally, what does it mean to me? She filed for the D. Do I bring this EA up in court? I will have to consult my Attorney about this.
Anyone have any experience with this?
Also, she offered me $10K to walk out the door and save us the court costs. This is about 10 times short of fair.