Thanks for stopping by AJM! It sure has been a rollercoaster, here in MLC land I will have to stop by your thread to check out your situation. I think I have used the wrong word: boundaries. I meant to say conditions. I was mostly wondering if I should bring up the counseling aspect as well as just making sure that he is willing to put effort moving forward. I am at the point of "do or die" right now. If he is not willing to put in the effort I am moving forward with the separation agreement.
peace, cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.