Thank you my forum friends!

[chasingpavements]

MrBond, thank you so much for your help and advice. I feel like right now I am struggling between wanting to have answers right now so I can move on with my life and giving him space and time.

I am going back to work in a month and feel like I would like to have some answers beforehand so I can handle some emotional as well as financial issues. I worried he was going to hold off on talking to me about things until just before I headed back to start work again, and that I would be an emotional wreck.

Do you have any advice for me on heading into my conversation with him? I already know I am going to let him take the lead and hear what he has to say.

If he says he is certain he wants to separate, I am just going to tell if that is what he wishes, then fine, and leave it at that. (no more talking)

If he wants to work on things what should I do/say? Should I just say ok I agree and leave it at that for now, or start getting into my boundaries that I listed above?

I feel a little lost right now, and doubting my decision to ask him to talk with me. Hopefully I am not rushing him, but I do feel I deserve an answer from him.

Regards,
-cp