In and out of fog city

[Pudmuddle]

I totally agree with you 2nd. Not all sitch's are the same and you have to apply DB when you can.

It's really all about the timing. When you see positive things, you know you can try a little more. If it backfires, pull back.

DB is not just about detaching, but applying positive steps too when you see the chance.

You sound more positive today, and I think you are on the right track with your situation.