About the only update that I have at this point is that I did take a chance and speak with my stepson. I just wanted to let him know that I had asked to see him and wanted to make sure that he understood that I didn't just give up after our little hiatus from the summer. I assured him again that I still love him, his sister and his mother and I would be checking back periodically to see if his mother has changed her mind on allowing us future contact. I just felt it important that he knows that I am always going to be there for him in whatever capacity I can and that my door will always remain open. So now it's back to work on all the projects that I have going staying focused on me and my future and the directions that my new life is taking me I will check back in a month and see if anything has changed and continue that pattern until I do see a change... Or until something shakes it up in another way
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12