Guess I belong here now...

[RosaLinda]

Hi SweetRed, just catching up on my friends. It sounds like your xH is in for a bit of stormy weather, what with losing his job after buying that car. It does seem that he is not able to completely let you go. Still muddling around in that rabbit hole I guess.

I'm sorry you won't get to see your step son, and he'll be with That Woman and her kids. That sux Red. Is she just up visiting or is she still looking at apartments up here?

I do have such hope for the two of you, despite the fact that you are divorced. Polly Anna maybe, but I think your H is starting to wake up, and when he does he will see you were there the whole time, his best friend, to whom you say he is still sexually attracted. That's nice, I do not have any of THAT Someday he'll realize that the infatuation only lasts a short while, but love and friendship and commitment in a marriage are forever. Not sure if you'll still be around at that point though, with all these cute bartenders hitting you up, and men out of the past looking you up on dating sites!

You do what is right for you SweetRed. You're a catch and a prize, and I have a lot of hope for you too Hope your business trip goes well!