She just means that her way of being sexual is to not have sex. I know it sounds silly out of context. Some people prefer oral sex. Others prefer intercourse. Still others prefer both equally. And then there are some who prefer neither -- that's her preference. She just happens not to prefer any of the choices. That's a sexual choice. Get it? Not that I really get it, but I sort of see her logic.
What I mean is she's fine with kisses that don't lead to sex. They don't lead to sex. So she's fine with them. My point is long kisses don't lead to sex, I don't expect them, I don't ask for sex, and no sex results. There is no conflict. Sex is out of the picture, period. No arguments, no difficulties. I don't get sex, but I'm used to it. I wish I got sex, but I don't. As for as the seeming conflict about my state of happiness about it, it's like me claiming to be unhappy about the fact that Megan Fox doesn't fly to my house to have sex with me. Yeah, I guess I'd be happy if she did. But I don't expect it, so I can't really say I'm unhappy. It's a relative term in the context of expectations. I know with certainty that sex is not going to happen with my wife, period. I mean, do you really think I'm stupid enough to think that sex might happen tonight when it hasn't happened in over a decade? I'm not that bad with statistical probability.
