On the second bullet, I told myself that I didn't care what he was doing because I really don't like the person he is right now and I cannot control it. So he can just do what he wants with whom he wants because it is all irrelevant to me. There was a lot more talk on this to myself but not worthy of board posting
I was just wondering what you're doing to fill your time this weekend. As I am separated, I don't know what my W is up to to (or with whom). I know I cannot control it, but it still eats me up. She could be sitting in her apartment alone watching movies or far, far worse. When I am alone with my thoughts, it just eats me up. I don't know if your sitch. is better or worse. You seem to be working towards finding a better place than I am. I suppose I did not really start to grieve until recently as I always held out hope W would return.
