Well, life can be weird. Knowing that reconciliation will never happen with too much bitterness and litigation ongoing. She has really crashed with debt , unpaid bills, she is all over the place, completely irresponsible behaviour on all levels. Go to court in Dec again and we still don't have what we need for a settlement offer...she d Still has not produced all disclosure. She gets a serums traffic offence, notice for collections of a debt for a utility etc etc. I am trying to settle into new home and get my job going. Kids are pissed but trying to make the most of it....seems they are better sports than us. I have been seeing this 30 year old about once a week and we speak daily. Told me today the age difference does not bother her and that I look great and she is very attracted to me after 5 months of seeing her. XW and I were at same parent meeting last week...she looked tired and stressed and not good at all. She still creates nastiness. We both have resentments. It will be a long time before I have any respect for her...just being honest here, she has destroyed any possibility of amicable relationship and co-parenting she clearly has trouble with. Still controlling on that front...always will I guess...it's what she knows.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
