PS- it is good you and your W can still be a good team in co-parenting. This will be very important no matter what the future holds!
I guarantee you that your W doesn't hate you. Not at all. In time she will learn that her "new model" just looked shiny and desirable b/c it (he) was new and that over time that shine will dull and look a lot less desirable.
It's all about TIME, I've realized... (but life is too short to stay stuck, so onward we go!!!)
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.