T2, we're on the same wavelength. It actually feels pretty great to get to this point in our journey. You've been at this longer than me, so you're further along - I'm going on 8 months. Anyhow, I'm seeing that they MLCer has their tunnel and we have ours'. I'm seeing light at the end of my tunnel with or without W. Oddly, at this very moment I don't have a lot of anger toward her. I just want to hug her from a far out of compassion for her. I will sleep well tonight and I hope to keep my head in the same place during the D process. It will be an interesting road ahead.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy