Well, 2nd, the good thing I can see out of this is that you are recognizing your own behaviors. That is the first step to changing them. You will do better next time.
Yes, since she did not respond at all wait a week. you can do it.
Remember, you didn't get to this place overnight, so it cannot be fixed overnight.
Be strong!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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