funny you should mention how they now do the opposite. My h used to clean a lot. He always needed things tidy and in their place and he would vacuum and clean bathrooms. Now, it is like he doesn't even care about that stuff, which is how I know he is NOT is his right mind. He was a great wife. sigh. LOL.
I think that's one thing I can look for in the future for a good sign, if he starts cleaning again. HAha.
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