To be honest, I wouldn't linger on the R talk issue. You say that you don't like being in limbo, but you really haven't been in it that long.

R talks have a way of ending badly with all the stress and pressure. Keep things light and open. Allow him to trust you.

Good luck.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER