He was one of those men who helped lost old ladies and everyone liked. His kindness was one of the things I loved about him. I think that is why his treatment of me doubly hurt. He could be infinitely kind to strangers but could not find it in him to be kind to me at the worst times in my life. And then berated me for everything I was.
Portia, it is like you are describing my H. He was always kind to people, especially old ladies, or single women needed help for that matter. I did a lot of things for him while we were married, I supported him through difficult times, took care of him when he was sick. And what do I get now? He behaves like I almost don’t exist. My friends at our vacation home place keep shaking their heads every time we have a conversation concerning H. They are at loss why he treats me this way.
I’m almost sure that his R with OW, if there is still one, is deteriorating. The rose covered glasses are coming off. I would be curious too, what is happening over there. I’m sure you will find out one day.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
