Surviving Separation

[Confluences]

I found out last night that her girlfriends are taking her to Charlotte for a late Birthday/Girl's getaway on Saturday (which is better than a OM, I guess). I was having dinner at my buddy's house, whose Wife is going on the overnight tomorrow and she said that they were going to stop by on the way back, which is fine if they all come over.

I just said that she needs to check the attitude at the door and all will be fine. This girl's husband suggested back in July (when she was being really nasty) that I put all of her possessions on a table in the front yard, then call her and tell her she needs to come and get all her possessions before someone else walks off with her stuff. He was so mad at her at the time.

I took the high road and found this website instead to work through things.....so I guess it was better to stick with DBing.

Anyway, I think that ignoring her on her Birthday may have touched a nerve. I think having her friends with her will make it easier on both of us.

The best advice you gave me was having sports on and just let her do her thing and not follow her around the house. I guess we'll just have to wait and see.