"she has also indicated that her "style" of sex that suits her at this stage is essentially for it to be sort of abstract."
Has she ever explained what this means?
"Long kisses? Sure, as long as she feels they're not going to lead to sex."
Then don't let it lead to sex. You got to start somewhere. But if you and she are fine with the status quo, that's your choice. Good luck to you though.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.